{"id":1303,"date":"2011-04-03T19:10:44","date_gmt":"2011-04-03T19:10:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/?p=1303"},"modified":"2011-04-03T19:10:44","modified_gmt":"2011-04-03T19:10:44","slug":"vad-utgor-en-frisk-karleksrelation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/?p=1303","title":{"rendered":"Vad utg\u00f6r en frisk k\u00e4rleksrelation?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vad utg\u00f6r en frisk k\u00e4rleksrelation? Vad best\u00e5r den av?<\/p>\n<p>I grunden \u00e4r den ett m\u00f6te. <strong>Ett m\u00f6te <\/strong>en dag i taget. Ibland blir dagarna till \u00e5r, \u00e5rtionden. Ibland till en liten stund i livet.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e5t oss f\u00f6rst definiera ordet m\u00f6te h\u00e4r. M\u00e5nga av er vet direkt vad jag menar. Ett m\u00f6te i det h\u00e4r sammanhanget, betyder inte en tr\u00e4ff eller sammanstr\u00e5lning, nej, inneb\u00f6rden \u00e4r <em>f\u00f6rening av tv\u00e5 sj\u00e4lar<\/em>. Tv\u00e5 sj\u00e4lar som <em>ser <\/em>varandra, och som f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras, v\u00e4xer av f\u00f6reningen. Ett s\u00e5dant m\u00f6te.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00f6rst uppst\u00e5r harmoni, k\u00e4rlek, passion &#8230; sammansm\u00e4ltning fysiskt, sj\u00e4lsligt, kemiskt. Det g\u00e5r en tid av bara det. L\u00e4ngre eller kortare &#8211; ov\u00e4sentligt. Sedan f\u00f6ljer lika s\u00e4kert som i vilken dramaturgi som helst det vi alla helst undviker och fruktar, men <strong>som paradoxalt nog<\/strong> &#8211; tillsammans med njutning, f\u00f6r njutning \u00e4r sannerligen livets mening &#8211; <strong>\u00e4r hela po\u00e4ngen med relationen<\/strong>: konflikten, d v s\u00a0<strong>v\u00e4xandet<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e4r jag kommer dit i en relation st\u00e4ller jag mig alltid fr\u00e5gan (och f\u00f6rhoppningsvis g\u00f6r min partner detsamma, har vi dessutom det som gemensam \u00f6verenskommelse f\u00f6r v\u00e5r relation s\u00e5 \u00e4r halva slaget vunnet. Rekommenderas innerligt.): &#8220;Vill jag? \u00c4lskar jag tillr\u00e4ckligt mycket f\u00f6r att dyka genom denna stund av m\u00f6rker med honom, komma ut ny? Ja!&#8221; <em>Kill me now, and not tomorrow!<\/em> L\u00e5t oss m\u00f6ta transformation, villiga att ge upp allt annat f\u00f6r att s\u00e4tta den f\u00f6rst. <strong>Putting the dissolving into the Divine before our selfs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>D\u00e5 finns inte utrymme f\u00f6r stagnation. Bara renhet. Annars kommer stagnationen, b\u00e4cken slammas, vattnet ej l\u00e4ngre friskt flytande \u00f6ver stenarna vi b\u00e5da b\u00e4r.<\/p>\n<p>Ny. Nu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Utan f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar &#8211; men i 100% \u00e5tagande att djupast och innerligast m\u00f6jligt \u00e4lska den andra. <\/strong>S\u00e4ga: &#8220;I do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-1304\" href=\"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/?attachment_id=1304\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-1304\" title=\"IMG_0447\" src=\"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-950x950.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"465\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-950x950.jpg 950w, https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-270x270.jpg 270w, https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-310x310.jpg 310w, https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447-590x590.jpg 590w, https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/IMG_0447.jpg 1936w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 465px) 100vw, 465px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vad utg\u00f6r en frisk k\u00e4rleksrelation? Vad best\u00e5r den av? I grunden \u00e4r den ett m\u00f6te. Ett m\u00f6te en dag i taget. Ibland blir dagarna till \u00e5r, \u00e5rtionden. Ibland till en liten stund i livet. L\u00e5t oss f\u00f6rst definiera ordet m\u00f6te h\u00e4r. M\u00e5nga av er vet direkt vad jag menar. Ett m\u00f6te i det h\u00e4r sammanhanget, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[62,77],"class_list":["post-1303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-love","tag-truth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1303","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1303"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1303\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1308,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1303\/revisions\/1308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.littlewing.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}